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Alcoholics Anonymous
Recently, I
attended an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting in Elizabethtown. Initially, I was
pretty nervous to attend this meeting, because I did not really know what to
expect from it. I went with a friend from the class, so that gave me a bit of
confidence.
This AA group was
actually somewhat small, with only nine members. The majority of the group
members were male, with only three females. Mostly, the group members were
middle-aged, however there was one or two younger individuals.
Before the meeting
began, group members were milling around the room, sipping coffee. Once the
meeting began, the members went around the room and introduced themselves to
us. The regular members obviously noticed that we were new to the group, and
asked us to give our name and reason for coming.
This interaction
made me feel pretty uncomfortable. While the group members were welcoming for
the most part, I almost felt as if I was intruding on their meeting because I
am not an alcoholic. However, I simply stated my name, and that I am a student
from Elizabethtown College participating in the meeting for a class on
addictions. A couple of the members seemed to resent my presence because of
this. Therefore, I limited my participation for the rest of the meeting, and
simply tried to blend in.
After the
introductions, an older gentleman led the group; beginning with the serenity
prayer. This seemed to be an action that was repeated at every meeting. They
then read passages from a book, and stated whether they were able to relate to
the passages or not. Afterwards, some of the members shared their stories with
each other, obviously gaining support from one another.
It is for this
reason that I believe these meetings, and this meeting specifically, are
extremely helpful to the participants. Alcoholics Anonymous offers a strong
support system to these participants, and gives them people to answer to. Some
of the members even voiced that this support system is what got them through to
becoming sober, and staying sober.
This experience truly
relates to information I have learned in class. For example, we discussed how
alcohol withdrawal and addiction may almost be worse than any other drug.
Throughout this meeting, I was able to see this first hand. In addition, we had
learned in class about 12-step programs, and about the fact that these programs
are usually very spiritual. This was also evident during the AA meeting I
attended.